Writings by Randall

Coaching my kids' basketball teams is a chance to be a good father and role model, focusing on fun, improvement, and life lessons. But after our first game of the season, I couldn't shake the frustration of dealing with referees who let their insecurities and overuse of power tarnish the experience. While I strive to model respect for authority, it’s hard to ignore how unnecessary displays of control can trigger feelings of frustration and resentment. It’s a reminder that even small moments, like a youth game, can be impacted by the misuse of power.